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Matching with celebrities on dating apps is awkward as hell

How to not be weird when flirting with and dating celebrities, by people who've successfully done it.

Jul 13 • Megan Wallace 🥀

Unsolicited advice: "My lesbian partner won't go down on me"

A reader writes in with a common sexual dilemma: a distinct lack of oral sex in a romantic relationship.

Jul 6 • Megan Wallace 🥀

7 ways to have a healthier relationship with porn

Adult content is shrouded in shame and stigma, but it doesn't have to be that way.

Jun 24 • Megan Wallace 🥀

What I've learned from a decade of writing about dating and relationships

From situationships to friend breakups: this is what you need to know.

Jun 8 • Megan Wallace 🥀

Unsolicited advice: "I'm in love with an emotionally broken alpha male"

One reader gets in touch with a familiar dilemma: she's down bad for a man child. But how do you break from the reassuring toxicity of obsession?

May 11 • Megan Wallace 🥀

How to not fumble a bisexual

Straight guys: don't say I never gave you anything

Apr 20 • Megan Wallace 🥀

How to end a relationship without ghosting, according to a sexpert

Anti-ghosting prompts which your therapist will love

Jan 12 • Megan Wallace 🥀

How to figure out if you're in a healthy polyamorous relationship

I spoke to non-monogamous people about their fave things about polyamory, and what they had to say was veeeery cute.

Oct 1, 2025 • Megan Wallace 🥀

Does breathwork make you better at giving head?

Another sex 'how to' guide from my past in digital media.

Sep 1, 2025 • Megan Wallace 🥀

How to game the dating app algorithm

Stop swiping into the void - here's the cheat code to help you unlock your 'appily ever after

Aug 12, 2025 • Megan Wallace 🥀

Here are the biggest sex misconceptions, according to sexperts

Fancy a lesson on sexual hearsay? Here's what three of my fave Substackers exploring the erotic had to say.

Jul 18, 2025 • Megan Wallace 🥀

The definitive guide to the best date spots in London

My fave dating memories in London, plus a curation of ideal date spots selected by writer Rebecca Thimmesch, a connoisseur of eating, drinking and being…

Jul 11, 2025 • Megan Wallace 🥀

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